Here is my 30 before 30 list.
Tackling Nagging “Adult” things.
- Finish Master’s Degree.
- Join a Professional Association.
- Buy a suit.
- Go to a conference.
- Get a job.
- Save 2 months of living expenses.
- Floss daily.
Go on (local) Adventures.
- Go on a weekend Road Trip.
- Run 6/9 Races of the North Shore Trail Series.
- Try yoga paddleboarding.
- Go to the Boston Harbor Islands .
- Eat at the Top of the Hub.
Continue to be a Navel Gazer.
- Go on a retreat to L’Abri.
- Make a wedding photo album.
- Update the 5 Year plan for our family.
- Send thank-you letters to three people who have had a big influence in my life.
- Start a new Blog.
- Write my 20’s in a long form essay.
- Take a cooking (or art) class.
- Go to a wine tasting.
- Try a new fitness style (adult gymnastics? TRX?).
- Take an Economics 101 MOOC.
- Learn Graphic Design Basics.
- Write a book proposal – or – Submit a story to Relevant/ Her.meneutics.
- Learn how to do 4 new functions on my camera (eg: white balance).
Get (even more) Social.
- Learn how to make 5 drink recipes from memory.
- Reconnect with a few high school friends.
- Become a Mentor.
- Host a story-telling party.
- Organize a group camping trip.
Some thoughts on the process -
It was both easier and harder to make this list than I thought.
Easier because…On the one hand, I feel as though the last five years taught me a lot of the types of lessons people vow to fix when they turn 30 (for example to get more organized or have better time management skills. Not that I’m perfect, obviously). And… I don’t feel my biological clock ticking because having an unplanned kid means at least I got that accomplished early. I didn’t struggle with trying to pick which bad habit to fix – it was easy. I do need to floss every day, and I’m currently terrible at it.
On the other hand… I wish I had the money to put international travel on the list, or take a lot more costly classes and experiences (sky diving – yeah, I would have tried that). I don’t need more money to be happy, I am happy, but… it would have made for a more adventuresome list and I’m very envious of those that are travelling a lot more than I am.
And now… I plan to print the list off and stick it in my study space so I can work on it over the next year.